A new book from Access Consciousness
The Five Elements of Intimacy
A New Way of Looking at Relationships
Intimacy isn’t about changing who you are—it’s about including yourself.
What If Intimacy Begins With You?
“Mary showed us that becoming intimate with your partner always begins by becoming intimate with yourself.”
Most people enter relationships and slowly begin divorcing parts of themselves.
They stop doing what they love.
They change to be accepted.
They try to become what the other person will approve of.
And then they wonder why intimacy disappears.
What if intimacy was never about changing yourself…
but about including yourself.
“Judgment Is the Antithesis of Awareness.” “Judgment Is the Antithesis of Awareness.”
Most relationships are built on conclusions. “I love him.” “She’s perfect for me.” “This will work.” But as the book reveals, conclusions limit awareness — and intimacy requires awareness. What if instead of trying to be right, you started asking questions?
A Relationship Should Expand Your Life
“A relationship is something that should expand your life, not something that contracts it.”
Does your relationship expand you?
Or have you made yourself smaller to maintain it?
This book invites you to:
- Honor yourself
- Function from awareness
- Stop judging
- Choose beyond limitation
- Build intimacy without losing you
About the authors
Gary M. Douglas and Dr. Dain Heer
Gary M. Douglas and Dr. Dain Heer are internationally recognized authors, speakers, and founders of Access Consciousness.
For decades, they have invited people to question limitation and function from awareness rather than judgment.
Their work empowers individuals to trust their knowing, honor themselves, and create lives and relationships filled with greater ease, joy, and possibility.
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If intimacy is not about rules, control, or perfection…
what is it?
Preorder The Five Elements Of Intimacy and begin creating relationships that expand your life.